tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2222006420607643914.post4847953762306468664..comments2023-07-03T07:41:31.987-07:00Comments on I Missed Being Me: Don't these men understand that you can't abuse a woman without abusing her children?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12315837579262893019noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2222006420607643914.post-36017780877524269792009-07-23T14:38:31.931-07:002009-07-23T14:38:31.931-07:00I agree with you and hope you are reunited with yo...I agree with you and hope you are reunited with your son soon. Those who make false accusations of abuse not only destroy the lives of their own children and the other parent, they also are one of, if not the, main causes that those who TRULY ARE abused are often ignored and/or not believed. Making false accusations of abuse should definitely be a crime.<br /><br />And as much as I'm sure that you're no bastard, I too am no saint, but I am working everyday to do what is best for my children, not for myself, sometimes I slip and fail, so then I fess up, pick myself back up and continue on the forever journey...I wish I did better and everyday new day I hope I do.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12315837579262893019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2222006420607643914.post-30230895058171770742009-07-21T18:05:43.094-07:002009-07-21T18:05:43.094-07:00Just a chance passerby by to this blog after follo...Just a chance passerby by to this blog after following a series of links from a Google alert. Well, perhaps it's not such a coincidence after all. I do have an active interest in the subject matter. You are right in your assertion that a man cannot abuse his children's mother without abusing the children, for many reasons, above and beyond those you listed here. Would you agree that a mother that seperates a father from his son also damages her son?<br /><br />My son was abducted to Mexico by my wife and I struggle to bring him home. Somehow I feel that by my simply stating that you have decided that I am an abusive husband and that she fled to protect herself and/or her son, but perhaps I am unfair. I have not read any more of your blog besides this post but a couple of the ones that led me here seemed very anti-men (and I was raised by a feminist, single mother) so much so that I left them without ever bothering to comment. There is little point trying to convince those that are motivated by ideology rather than reason. All men are not bastards and all women are not saints.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com